What If My Child Doesn’t Listen to the Instructor?
Many parents worry: “What if my child won’t listen in martial arts class?”
It’s a common concern — especially if your child has lots of energy or sometimes struggles with focus. At Absolute Martial Arts, with schools in Carshalton, Caterham, North Cheam, and Ewell, we specialise in working with children of all personalities, including those who find listening a challenge.
Why This Worry Is Normal
Plenty of children test boundaries when starting something new. It’s part of their learning and growth. Martial arts classes are actually designed to help improve listening skills step by step.
How Our Instructors Handle It
• Clear routines – Children know what to expect in every class, which helps them settle quickly.
• Positive reinforcement – We praise focus and effort, so kids are motivated to listen.
• Firm but kind boundaries – Instructors set expectations calmly and consistently.
• Engaging activities – Classes are active, fun, and designed to hold attention.
What Parents Notice Over Time
Parents are often surprised at how quickly martial arts improves their child’s behaviour and focus. Within weeks, many see:
• Better listening at home and school
• More patience when following instructions
• Greater respect for adults and peers
Why Martial Arts Helps With Listening
The respectful culture of martial arts encourages children to pay attention to their instructor. Over time, this becomes a habit that benefits them not only in class, but in all areas of life.
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👉 Book a free trial at Absolute Martial Arts and see how classes in Carshalton, Caterham, North Cheam, and Ewell can improve your child’s focus, listening, and respect.