Does Martial Arts Make Kids More Aggressive?
One of the most common questions parents ask us is: “If my child joins martial arts, will it make them more aggressive?”
The truth is, martial arts reduces aggression. At Absolute Martial Arts in Surrey, our children’s classes focus on respect, discipline, and confidence. Instead of encouraging aggression, martial arts helps kids channel their energy in a positive way.
Martial Arts Teaches Respect and Discipline
From their very first class, children learn to bow, listen carefully, and follow instructions. This structure teaches patience, self-control, and respect — qualities that often improve behaviour both at school and at home.
Why Martial Arts Helps Curb Aggression
• Clear structure and rules: Kids thrive in an environment where they know exactly what’s expected.
• Confidence building: Children who feel secure in themselves don’t need to lash out.
• Positive energy outlet: Martial arts provides safe, active training that channels natural energy.
• Self-defence mindset: Students learn martial arts is for protection, never for starting fights.
What Parents Notice After Martial Arts Classes
Parents at our schools in Carshalton, Caterham, North Cheam, and Ewell often tell us they see big improvements within weeks, including:
• Better behaviour at home and in school
• More patience with siblings and peers
• Greater focus and concentration
• A calmer, more respectful attitude
Martial Arts Builds Confidence, Not Aggression
When children feel confident, they’re less likely to get drawn into conflict. Martial arts gives them the self-assurance to walk away, knowing they have the skills to protect themselves if they ever need to.
Where We Teach Martial Arts in Surrey
Absolute Martial Arts runs family-friendly children’s martial arts classes across Surrey:
• Carshalton – Evening classes twice a week
• Caterham – Tuesday & Thursday classes, perfect for after school
• North Cheam – Monday & Wednesday evenings
• Ewell – Monday evenings and Saturday mornings
No matter which venue you choose, your child will learn in a safe, structured, and positive environment.
👉 Book a free trial at Absolute Martial Arts today and see how our martial arts classes in Carshalton, Caterham, North Cheam, and Ewell help kids grow calmer, more confident, and more respectful.